You're In Love with a Married Woman
23 May I know it is bad as i feel guilty for feeling like this but then i want to laugh because i feel its ridiculous as she is a woman, i have no idea if she is Of course it isn´t ridiculous, you are attracted to her but also say you are happily married so you should probably put it in perspective as the crush it is and not let. 7 Feb "Women tend to get more dissatisfied with marriage over time than men do." It seems like every time you turn around these days you hear about another woman who is leaving her man for a woman: actress Cynthia Nixon, 24dating.me's Jenna Lyons, my good friend Rachel, who gave me a blow-by-blow account. 11 Aug Married to her high-school sweetheart for 25 years, the mum-of-two had the picture-perfect family life in suburban New York when the penny dropped. One day, sitting opposite her best friend, she realised: "Oh my God. I'm in love with this woman." Although the feeling wasn't mutual, it triggered Carren's.
The good, bad and sometimes ugly. Check out Mumsnet's Relationships pages for advice on all sides of Married Woman Feelings For Another Woman life. Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. God i feel like im embarking on an affair by writing this down. I am in my mid 30's married with 3 kids all under 6. I love my husband and we are happy and have a good relationship.
Recently i have become quite friendly with a woman i know who works at a place i visit a couple of times a week. She is always friendly to me and i have always liked her but recently for some weird reason i can't get her out my head. I really admire her and alto i don't think she is a particularly 'pretty' woman, infact she is quite tom boyish in a way, i find i am quite drawn to her.
Even to the point of wanting to have physical comtact with her. Not even so much in a sexual way but definitely in a sensual way.
I am quite aware that i have the potential to be bi sexual as i have had a relationship with a woman of sorts before. But this is different. I really feel like i have a crush on her. With this woman just now i can't get her out my head. I know it is bad as i feel guilty for feeling like this but then i want to laugh because i feel its ridiculous as she is a woman, i have no idea if she is hetrosexual or what and i don't actually want to rip her clothes off or anything, but i do want to be around her and i would like to be physical with her but more in a i'd like to embrace her kinda way.
Oh my god have i just lost it altogether? Thing is she is quite a spiritual person and i almost feel she has Married Woman Feelings For Another Woman a spell on me!!
Cant believe im writing this, i think i might actually have lost it!! It is your feelings. Treat it like this was a bloke and be careful. You can have admiration for someone, it doesn't have to be about sex. No it doesn't seem too ridiculous! I think it's perfectly possible to have crushes on other men AND women, and like other crushes it will probably pass.
My husband had no idea. I think a lot of women, late in life, when they're no longer worried about raising the kids, and when they're looking back on their marriage and how satisfying it is, find an opportunity to take a second look at what they want and feel like. She would put her hand on my head. I admit I felt very nervous, even reluctant, about taking that step, but Ursula click the lead. Not even those you have with women after you leave your husband, apparently.
Sometimes you meet people who you just connect with, either because they are drop dead gorgeous, or have an energy about them, or who you just have tons in common with - there's a kind of spark, iykwim? Just because you're married doesn't mean you're dead from the neck down, and just because you're heterosexual doesn't mean you can't find other women attractive or admire them.
Can't really help, don't think it is unusual to have crushes etc although I've never even kissed another woman I've been there, but think if you just want to be close etc and its not overtly sexual then perhaps there is something about this woman that you really admire - a quality that you would like to have if that makes sense?
I got a crush on a colleague she's just very cool and funny and great company, and she's gay so it threw a frisson into the mix it surfaces every time I see her she's left my office every 6 months or so, and it's a bit of a laugh. I'm not saying that if I was drunk and she was single I wouldn't be tempted to snog her, which I would be more likely to do than continue reading bloke I had a crush on DH Married Woman Feelings For Another Woman have an issue with me snogging women should the occasion arise but it doesn't cause me angst.
It's just a crush and doesn't mean I'm gay or even bi, or want to leave DH for her. As i say, i don't daydream about getting down to hot and steamy lesbian sex with this girl but i know it is more than just wanting to be her friend Married Woman Feelings For Another Woman liking her. I have lots of good friends, and a few close girl friends that i get on really well with, can laugh and cry with but this is much different.
Like i know it is odd because i wonder how she smells, you know her continue reading, her neck, god can't believe im writing this, makes me want to reach for the lithium!! Ive flipped its official!! I have had a few crushes on other birds.
I like someone atm who is a close friend, but I don't yet feel those sexual type things towards her. It's just she is someone I find is rather special and fits into my mind in a way that says 'this one is something else' iyswim. I doubt it will progress anyway, but it is always nice to feel that intimacy and ease of being with another person, male or female. It's happened to me before too.
My advice is to distance yourself from her for a bit. As you say, it's a crush.
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We all know what happens to crushes - they flare up, and die down. Focus on your lovely DH, and your 'feelings' for this woman will eventually fade into the background. I know this is totally not about me but that is the source time anyone has ever quoted me on MN.
Wish my husband was like that and then i wouldn't feel so guilty!! Teehehe it's not like it ever actually does arise I think the condition would be that i told him all about it though.
I am a man and have NO useful comment. BTW, this thread is useless without pictures. Sod off back to the dvd forums, Andy. LOL at Andy sorry. Click here tiredntetchy Thank God I'm not the only one loosing the plot.
Your situation mirrors mine so closely. I'm 40, married with 2 kids and a life I love. Another woman who is also married came into my life about 1 year ago.
We've grown closer and become great friends but my feelings for her are spiralling into something more and I get the vibes that she feels the same way too. We have only socialised in a group with others before. Tomorrow night however we are having a night out together. I feel like a teenager on a first date- it makes no sense.
Seeking to reassure myself, I type "homosexuality in the animal kingdom" into Google, and I find articles in Nature and Science about same-sex relationships that occur between all kinds of animals, from bonobos to giraffes to fighter fish to birds. Much of this is speculation, of course, and that I need to investigate the evolutionary advantages of homosexuality unnerves me. A lot of other women came forward.
This crush is out of control! I can't get her out of my head, I'm fantasising about touching, kissing and being intimate with her. She is 8 years older than click here and I can only rationalise my feelings by thinking that the reason I'm so drawn to her is perhaps an admiration of her as someone who is very talented, who I inspire to be like rather than jealous of Does this make any sense??
Am I bisexual or jut bicurious? Being married does not mean that we will not fancy other men, and women, at some point in our lives.
There is no "off switch" on attraction! The key is what we do about it. If your marriage is satisfactory write down the plussses and minusses of this woman, your marriage will win.
We all sometimes fancy something we should not. Finally celbrate both the joys of personal attraction- and the benefits of a stable marriage. If it's a 'I want to be her' rather than 'I want to be with her' thing I'm not being flippant, I'm wondering if she's appealling because she represents something you want in your own life.
OP, there's a really good Married Woman Feelings For Another Woman in Relationships called "Turning Tavern" - I think its in its fourth or fifth incarnation now. It helped me a lot last year when I was in a similar situation to yours. Hi Blowin The beginning of this thread is old. I am replying to a post dated 19th March, so put on only a couple of weeks ago. New to this so don't know MN etiquette. Registering is free, easy, and means you can Married Woman Feelings For Another Woman in the discussion, get discounts, win prizes and lots more.
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