I'M DATING A BOY AND A GIRL!
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I guess, just, I've always identified as straight, and I don't feel any different just because I'm dating a woman. I don't think that's weird. My girlfriend does. She says by virtue of dating her, I'm definitely not straight. She doesn't really care, but she does think I'm just a ball of neuroses. I am, lol, but I don't think I. 21 Apr Guys are nice in that it feels simpler to date them (we look like a straight couple so less awkward comments, and dudes will generally calm the fuck down about anything if you have sex with them). Girls are harder for me. I am female myself but everyone says I act like a guy, and I'm clueless when it comes. 6 Feb I went to a party recently that was mostly gay girls, but one of the girls there was straight (she'd come with her roommate). Straight Girl and I got to talking, and we hit it off so we agreed to meet for drinks the following night. We did, and she confessed she'd never been with a girl before but was always.
Loyal lesbian reader here. I know you usually deal with gay dudes and their problems, but I wonder if you could give me some perspective on this problem I have.
I just don't give a fuck. Maybe I'll feel more queer over time and my identity will change. I would obviously say you're not straight, lol.
Straight Girl and I got to talking, and we hit it off here we agreed to meet for drinks the following night.
I have two questions: Does it ever happen that bi-curious guys will go after an out gay man, but then feel conflicted about their feelings and return to the warm, familiar bosom of straightdom? But with nothing even approaching the frequency that it occurs among women, according to my lesbian friends.
However, the evidence provided by psychologist Barry X. Kuhle, who posits this theory, seems pretty slight.
Beats the hell out of me. Both of you should tread lightly, and be honest with each other at all times. But again, what the hell do I know? My friend Liz, a brilliant filmmaker based in LA who also happens link love the ladies, had this to say:.
If it never ends well, why start this one? There are easier ways to find and date women who like women the Internet? If SGF and this girl enjoy each others company, then cool, a new friendship … but I would have SGF ask herself if she could realistically be friends with someone she is attracted to, or if every hangout filled her with hope that she could change Straight Girl to Bi Girl.
To reiterate my advice? We both came into the relationship stating our expectations, which is total monogamy. I forgave him, which was hard for me, but I worked through it.
However, six weeks later, it happened again. After that, I broke up with him for good.
It's not a binary switch being "gay or not gay. That was 4 years ago, and I feel like I've traveled a roller coaster of attractions and identities, swinging from her being my one exception, to finding guys completely repulsive and all women magical. I found that a small number of lesbians often judge me for indulging in both sexes. No, I don't think you're straight if you're in a relationship with a lady, and I don't know if it matters. Maybe you need to explore labels more, open up your mind??
Did I do the right thing by breaking it off? Thankfully, your question was much less complex than the cheating issue we talked about last week.
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